Looking for true love
The murmur of streams and birdsong evoke thoughts of a bright future, new acquaintances and long-awaited meeting with your partner. How not cool, and spring is the most romantic time of the year when waking up not only nature, but also new feelings.
The brighter it shines and the sun warms, the more you want to heart "fluttered" in anticipation of a long-awaited reunion with a loved one. Millions of people all over the plan, write books, sing songs, write poems and make films about how to find true love. Unfortunately, it is not given to everyone.
Become by itself
If you have at the moment a loved one, think about why this is so. The idea that everything around you might not notice your beauty and intelligence is not entirely correct. Therefore, you should look at yourself more objectively, which will give the opportunity to address the weaknesses that were not noticed previously. And if possible, begin to eliminate them as quickly as possible.
This does not mean that the mirror will show you all your weaknesses. Of course, your appearance is very important, but a serious relationship that will be nurtured feelings are based primarily on communication.
This concept can be compared to a gift for a birthday, which we initially appreciate the beauty of the wrapper, but more important is actually the thing that is under it. After all, a beautiful box that is empty inside, cause you resentment, right? In order for this analogy was not carried out in relation to you, should be interesting, well-rounded person.
Dance classes, skydiving, yoga and much more may be of interest to others as well. Spending more time in the community, you will be able to expand your social circle, to diversify life and to increase the chances of finding your soulmate.
Love, of course, comes to us unexpectedly, but hoped that she'd knocked on the door, it is at least silly. It can descend on you in the company of friends, at work, on a walk or on the Internet. Don't get too much attention and faithfully look into the eyes of everyone the person you like.
Most likely, on the contrary it will make him push you away. Think of it as little as possible, and spend more time with simple unobtrusive communication, so you will look more attractive in the eyes of others.
Learn to respect
When meeting a person do not forget that in the first place is also a person. Therefore it is not necessary to suppress the interlocutor, constantly pointing to their superiority, in terms of mental abilities, external data and achievements in professional field. Every man can understand and appreciate.
A conversation with your partner can be on absolutely any topic, it is very important that they were interesting both. Pauses in conversation can be filled by asking questions and indicating that the person you care about, and his opinion is very important to you.
You need to be able not only to speak but to listen. After all, what he says characterizes his attitude toward life and others, his Outlook.
Any memories of childhood and adolescence will help to know a person much better. If you understand what we are talking about something important to him, don't miss your chance to support him or sympathize.
In search of love never lose respect for yourself, do not rush to the neck of the first comer, who has paid you some attention, or asked out. Look at the man, talk to him and only then will you be able to draw conclusions about the continuation of the further relations.
Why are you unlucky?
You probably know the situation. You are smart, attractive, full of strength and energy, but your second half yet near you.
But the people who surround you, in your opinion, have nothing special and do not have special mental abilities, but nevertheless, living very happily with their true love. But why is this happening and is it even possible to find true love?
If you find out after these words yourself, the the main your mistake is that you compare yourself with other people, and this is not in any case to do. Every person is a unique personality not like the rest of them.
Many desperate people in the eternal search for love going to psychics, fortune-tellers and sorcerers to find out the cause of their failures and as soon as possible to know the future, but it is also not a suitable option.
May not all believe in the existence of God, but prayer can sometimes be the only way to find true love and similar examples in life quite a lot.
What you are looking for?
Think well if you do a search of my second half, whom do you seek? Realizing this, you can gain access to wider opportunities in terms of search. Mentally you need to formulate the type of partner and to highlight the most important aspects.
Of course, love at first sight is not subject to any criteria, but when the first romantic haze will disappear and reality will come into its own better to think about these criteria and the ideal type.
True love means caring about another person, the desire to make it more happy, while demanding nothing in return. With such feelings you can not be afraid to make mistakes and look ridiculous.
The most important thing in relations is trust. People are not perfect, but when you agree to accept person with all his flaws, the way it is – this is true love. This feeling gives a sense of security, which is very important in a relationship.
Perhaps in your life before was not very successful relationship and in order to really meet your soulmate, you should not dwell on them.
Moving forward will give you the opportunity to meet new people, and still make mistakes as invaluable experience to build future relations.
Make an effort
- In search of love is very important to believe that you deserve it. A person with low self-esteem make it difficult enough. You need to be able to love yourself daily and remind yourself of that;
- "A rolling stone gathers no moss", so do not be afraid to make the first move. Where it is possible to find true love? This can happen anywhere and at the most unexpected moment for you;
- True love should not be regarded as a weakness. Even she is a huge effort and tireless work. This feeling is not the same as in the movies. In real life it is more down to earth and thorough. The question of what big love can overcome any obstacles is quite controversial. And the answer depends primarily on whether or not it was truly mutual;
- If Yes, then the obstacles will even be able to strengthen the relationship. But this happens not so often. The reason is that trials which fall to our lot can change a man, but, alas, sometimes not for the better. Keep real feelings is a big job and then you can be proud that despite all the troubles and difficulties you could save and feelings and respect to each other;
- Of course, life can be a lot of words and actions that are difficult to forgive. But we all make mistakes, but pride and ego prevents us to overcome resentment and this must be addressed.
But if nothing happens, maybe this is not real love? What happens is that even the strongest feelings can change. If you realize that it's not what you were looking for, there's always a second chance.
And if you are lucky and you finally found true love, hold onto it with all his strength, love and learn to understand and forgive. A successful search for you and strong feelings!